Goldie & O are back after a long break and this episode is inspired by the great Seinfeld show.
DjBTurnin mixes & mashes up some of the latest Pop & Hip Hop hits featuring Katy Perry’s ‘Dark Horse’ for the listeners of the @goldieandoshow (bit.ly/1hfgABy). This episode is called ‘Why Get Married?’ Take a listen…
Brotha O wants to hear a mix celebrating Diddy and Bad Boy Records. This is a challenge for the mixmaster so let’s see what DjBTurnin has in store for the listeners of the @goldieandoshow (bit.ly/1hfgABy). This episode is called ‘Why Get Married?’ Take a listen…
Getting married implies that something bigger than both of you is bringing you together. Is marriage the final piece of the puzzle to a happy and complete life? And are we more concerned with perfect wedding or a successful marriage?
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There is so much excitement when it comes to weddings Just look at the spectacle of the Kim Kardashian/Kris Humpries wedding that only lasted 72-days. So many knew it wouldn’t last yet millions still tuned in and even cried. The chances of success in a marriage is already 50/50 so why do we put more effort planning the wedding than figuring out how to make it work? It is amazing how many people forego marriage counseling because it is ‘too expensive’ but will spend so much money on the wedding. Is it just an item to check off the bucket list or is it something meant to last?
As the saying goes, “every little girl dreams about her wedding day.” Although this may not be true in every case, most women will say it was very important to them growing up. And rightfully so, girls want to find their prince charming, have that fairy tale life, and live happily ever after. But why is the one day celebration such a huge spectacle? Has it become the showcase to family, friends and the world that ‘I have made it?’ Look, it’s nothing wrong with wanting to have a really nice wedding to commemorate your love and union with your closest family and friends. Just remember, that feeling you have on your wedding day. You should strive to mimic that feeling throughout the marriage and that takes more effort and commitment getting know about each other than putting on a really nice wedding production. Get individual and marriage counseling, take your time to get to know the good and bad about each other, and be committed to focusing on the little things. Be sure to give you and your future spouse the best chance for the marriage to last a very lifetime.
What’s more important the wedding or the marriage?
–Brian Turner aka Goldie of the Goldie and O Show